Husband Material

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

Podcasting since 2019 • 374 episodes

Husband Material

Latest Episodes

Why Your Sexual Fantasies Will Never Satisfy You

Have you ever felt like a sexual fantasy was so irresistible that missing out on it felt like missing out on life itself? While fantasies promise satisfaction, they are ultimately symbolic attempts to rewrite reality—seemingly beautiful like a ...

August 31, 2026 • 13:59

Tough Truths For Unfaithful Husbands (with James and Sam)

What if my wife isn't doing "her work"? What if my inner child doesn't feel safe with her? What if I feel like she is controlling me? How can I be assertive without being selfish? In this episode, you'll get answers to some of the toughest, mos...

August 24, 2026 • 44:02

Sextinction: Why We Are Having Less Sex (with Dr. Debra Soh)

What is the "sex recession" and why is it happening? Dr. Debra Soh explains today's widespread decline of sexual activity, long-term commitment, marriage, and childbearing—particularly among Gen Z and Millennials. We'll explore the underlying f...

August 17, 2026 • 40:13

What The Song Of Songs Teaches Us About Sex (with Russell Zahniser)

Have you ever wondered what the Song of Songs (Song of Solomon) is actually saying? Drawing on insights from ancient Mesopotamian erotic poetry, Russell Zahniser breaks down the two models of male sexuality featured in the Song of Songs. Listen...

August 10, 2026 • 45:50

How Music Transforms Sexual Temptation

Have you ever been amazed by the power of music? In this episode, you'll learn five ways music can support you in overcoming sexual temptation—including one resource that turns anyone into a songwriter. Songs mentioned on this e...

August 03, 2026 • 16:59

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Fan Mail

wow, this was unexpected, to have such a Social scientific analysis of this sensitive and surprising topic. I found this to be absolutely fascinating, as a mental health counselor, and someone who works with men with sex addiction, and also failure to launch. Quite eye-opening and comprehensive. Thank you, Drew.

Wayne, New Jersey