Husband Material

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

Podcasting since 2019 • 361 episodes

Husband Material

Latest Episodes

Unhealthy Attachment vs. Healthy Brotherhood

Learn 8 differences between unhealthy attachment and healthy brotherhood: How it beginsCore motivationEmotional toneBoundariesIdentity and inner stabilitySexual attraction dynamics

June 08, 2026 • 8:03

Fourteen Ways To Live Like A Beloved Son

"You are God's beloved son. In you He is well-pleased!" This is a powerful truth for outgrowing porn. But while that identity sounds beautiful, it often leaves us asking: What do I actually do with that? What does it look like to live like a be...

June 01, 2026 • 22:09

How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)

What is your heart hungry for? How can you satisfy that hunger in a healthy way? Shawn Bonneteau unpacks how our thoughts and actions flow from the heart, a 5-second tool that can interrupt unwanted behavior, and how Christ transforms us ...

May 25, 2026 • 31:50

Try Softer, Not Harder (with Aundi Kolber)

Instead of trying harder, what would it look like to try softer? Author and counselor Aundi Kolber guides us into compassionate attention so that we can reconnect with our bodies, heal from trauma, and outgrow porn. You'll also hear how God rel...

May 18, 2026 • 40:40

Dear Porn: A Breakup Letter

Hear a vulnerable, powerful breakup letter written to pornography.If this resonates with you, write your own “dear porn” breakup letter and share it in the Husband Material Community, which you can join at

May 11, 2026 • 18:18

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