Husband Material
So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
Episodes
384 episodes
How To Track Your Heart (with Josh Glaser)
How do you discover the deeper roots underneath surface-level sexual symptoms? Josh Glaser guides us in "tracking the heart," revealing where unwanted thoughts, feelings, and behaviors come from.Josh Glaser is the Executive Director of ...
How To Teach Children About Sexuality (with Adam + Karissa King)
What should sex education look like in today's world? Adam and Karissa King explain why parents must teach children about sexuality from a young age—and how to make these conversations easy, effective, and even fun.Adam + Karissa King a...
Internal Family Systems And Jesus (with Kim Miller)
Are you frustrated by internal conflict? Tired of being overwhelmed by thoughts and feelings? Kim Miller explains a Christ-centered approach to internal family systems (IFS). You'll learn the 5 steps of "taking a you-turn" so every part of you ...
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 2)
N is for Ninety DaysO is for OutgrowP is for PlasticityQ is for <...
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 1)
In this episode, you'll learn 13 key concepts for outgrowing porn based on the first 13 letters of the alphabet. Check out the list below for further information about each key concept (including paid links):A is for
Neglect: Hidden Trauma (with Stephen Thomas)
How do I know if I was neglected? And what can I do about it? Stephen Thomas unpacks 6 types of neglect, why neglect fuels shame and addiction, and what we can do as we recognize ways we have been neglected.Stephen Thomas is a husband a...
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Redeeming Heartache (with Cathy Loerzel)
Heartache has a pattern, and so does healing. Author and therapist Cathy Loerzel explains the 3 types of heartache, and a powerful path to healing for each one. Learn how your past has uniquely prepared you to experience more joy. Cathy...
The Five Types Of Intimacy
What is intimacy? How can I find it? Most intimacy is not sexual. Most intimacy is spiritual, social, emotional, mental, and physical. Learn why each type of intimacy matters, and how to experience each one without sex or porn.Resources...
Get Your Man Cards (with Henry Brown)
Men are lonely. How can we develop deeper friendships? Introducing Man Cards: a card deck of conversation starters for men designed by Drew Boa and Henry Brown. In this episode, Drew and Henry introduce Man Cards and show you how to use t...
Why Porn Is A Solution (with Matt Dobschuetz)
You'll never outgrow porn if you believe it's the problem. In this episode, Matt Dobschuetz explains why porn is a solution, and the surprising reason why one particular type of porn has appealed to him. This man overflows with kindness and hop...
Long Distance Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Mike)
Do you ever wish your friends lived closer? In today's world, long distance friendship is more possible and pervasive than ever. What are the blessings and drawbacks of this? In this episode, Husband Material coaches talk about how to maximize ...
Becoming Emotionally Mature (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
What is emotional maturity? How can we increase our emotional intelligence? In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci explains the three components of emotional maturity, why men struggle to love, and what we can do about it.Dr. Eddie Cappa...
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Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
What is the difference between sexual arousal and sexual desire, and why does it matter? In this episode, Dr. Doug Carpenter powerfully explains this concept and why it is absolutely essential for outgrowing porn. This episode is taken ...
Should I Count The Days Since I Last Used Porn?
Let me help you decide if “counting the days” is right for you. In this episode, you'll learn 2 bad reasons to count, 3 good reasons to count, and what works for me...2 bad reasons: Legalism & License 3 good reasons: Ce...
Porn And Centering Prayer (with Matthew Lyda)
What is centering prayer? How can it help us when we're triggered or preoccupied? In this episode, Matthew Lyda explains the 4 Rs of centering prayer: Resist no thought Retain no thought React to no ...
The Gospel And Trauma (with Matt Wenger)
How does the gospel interact with trauma? In this episode, Matt Wenger explains a Christ-centered and clinically innovative approach to healing trauma and outgrowing pornography.Matt Wenger is the clinical director of
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How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching
What if you could become a loving older brother to your inner child? In this episode, you'll discover how to do this through Older Brother Coaching. Older Brother Coaching is my unique approach to healing the inner child, which has...
The Blessing Of Being Reported (with Rich Moore)
What if being reported for criminal sexual activity can be a blessing? In this episode, Rich Moore explains how being reported saved his life and propelled him into healing. Rich also reveals how to know if you should report yourself or someone...
Healing Racial Trauma (with Sheila Wise Rowe)
What is racial trauma? How does it affect us all, and what does healing look like? In this episode, Sheila Wise Rowe shares insights and stories about how racial trauma can be healed.Sheila Wise Rowe is a truth-teller who writes passion...
Why Didn’t I Like Vaginas?
If you’re not attracted to typical porn, have you ever wondered why? In this episode, I explore the roots of my negative association with female sexual parts due to purity culture, parents, peers, princesses, and porn.Books about sex an...
How Does God View My Body? (with Matt Cline)
What does God think about my face, my gut, and my penis? In this episode, Matt Cline unpacks what the Bible says about our bodies—why they have value, and how we can reclaim the parts we don't like. Matt Cline is the director of
Toxic Shame vs. Healthy Shame (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Is there such a thing as healthy shame? How can we heal from toxic shame? In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter shares eye-opening answers to these questions from science and scripture.Dr. Jake Porter is the founder of Daring Ventures and ho...
Vulnerability 101 (LIVE)
What is true vulnerability? Why is it so important? When is it safe? And how can I get better at it? In this episode, I answer all these questions and more...If you want to become more vulnerable with men committed to curiosity and comp...
The Power Of Identity (with Sathiya Sam)
Who are you? What defines you? Performance? Porn addiction? Sexual attraction? In this episode, Sathiya Sam reveals the power of having a secure identity, how to strengthen your sense of self, and why he recommends self-care using the 5 love la...
Rags To Riches To Ruin To Redemption (with Dr. Joe Martin)
"You can't possibly hate yourself more than I love you. You can try, but it ain't gonna happen. You can try, but I have until eternity. You don't. How long do you wanna keep playing this game of the pity party and this shame when I got so much ...
