Speaker 1
0:00
And
today
we're
talking
about
why
or
better
yet,
why
not
quit
porn.
As
the
book
by
Simon
Sinek
puts
it,
What's
your
why?
Why
are
we
talking
about
this?
Because
it's
so
easy
to
give
up.
For
those
of
us
who
want
to
quit
porn
when
it
gets
hard
and
we
feel
like
giving
up,
we
need
to
remember
our
purpose,
our
vision,
our
passion.
The
reason
why
we
got
into
this
in
the
first
place.
0:22
In
grad
school,
I
learned
that
the
main
thing
is
to
keep
the
main
thing
the
main
thing.
So
that's
what
we're
talking
about
today.
I've
seen
hundreds
of
Christian
men
begin
the
process
of
getting
free
from
porn
o
ver
the
last
eight
years.
And
at
this
point
I
feel
like
I
can
actually
predict
who's
going
to
succeed
based
on
the
strength
and
quality
of
their
motivation.
So
what
are
my
top
10
reasons
to
quit
porn?
Speaker 1
0:47
The
most
powerful
motivations
here
they
come.
0:50
Number
one
for
yourself.
You
know
this
porn
is
not
your
best
life.
It's
contributing
to
depression,
to
anxiety,
to
self
hatred.
And
when
you
begin
to
quit,
you
will
get
your
joy
back,
your
peace
back,
your
self
confidence
will
go
through
the
roof
as
you
e
xperienced
victory.
Number
two
for
your
brain,
porn
hijacks
your
brain
and
it's
increasingly
violent
and
unrealistic.
It's
a
ffecting
your
sexual
attractions
so
that
you're
not
able
to
respond
to
a
real
relationship
and
a
real
human
being
in
the
same
way.
And
that
leads
me
to
number
three
for
your
body
erectile.
This
function
has
grown
a
ton
because
of
porn
for
men
in
their
twenties
like
me,
you
used
to
be
about
3%
of
us
suffered
from
erectile
dysfunction.
Now
it's
about
30%
and
it's
because
of
internet
pornography.
Your
body
will
not
function
sexually
as
it's
supposed
to
if
you
still
using
porn
and
not
only
for
the
sexual
parts
of
your
body,
but
also
just
for
your
energy,
for
your
overall
health,
do
it
for
your
body.
Speaker 1
1:50
Reason
number
four,
do
it
for
your
values.
Do
it
because
it's
the
right
thing
to
do.
Porn
destroys
lives
on
both
sides
of
the
screen,
not
just
on
your
side.
On
the
other
side.
There
is
a
deep
dark
belly
of
sexual
exploitation
of
human
trafficking.
The
porn
industry
is
all
over
the
world
and
when
we
consume
it,
we
contribute
to
that
industry.
2:15
Number
five,
do
it
for
your
faith.
You
are
a
son
of
the
most
high
King.
Your
identity
is
in
Christ.
God
is
your
father.
Jesus
is
your
brother,
and
the
Holy
spirit
lives
in
you.
What
place
does
porn
have
in
your
life?
It
is
so
beneath
you.
Your
faith
and
your
relationship
with
God
is
so
important
that
nothing
should
get
in
the
way,
especially
not
pornography.
Number
six,
do
it
for
your
marriage,
and
it
doesn't
have
to
be
just
for
married
guys.
Speaker 1
2:42
It
could
be
for
your
future
marriage
or
just
for
your
relationships,
but
porn
is
going
to
hurt
the
people
you
love
the
most.
And
if
you
want
to
be
married
someday,
you
can
save
your
marriage
before
it
starts
by
quitting
pornography.
2:57
For
number
seven,
do
it.
Your
future
children
for
your
family.
What
kind
of
husband
do
you
want
to
be
and
what
kind
of
father
do
you
want
to
be?
If
you
want
your
kids
to
grow
up
with
a
dad
who
can't
stop
looking
at
porn,
I
don't
think
so.
Number
eight,
do
it
for
your
career.
Do
you
want
to
be
successful
at
what
you
do?
Do
you
want
to
be
creative
and
productive
and
and
have
all
the
energy
and
inspiration
that
you
need
to
go
out
there
and
succeed
in
your
career?
Well,
porn
is
going
to
get
in
the
way
of
that
and
it's
going
to
destroy
that
if
you
love
it.
Speaker 1
3:28
Number
nine,
do
it
for
your
calling.
God
has
given
you
gifts.
God
has
given
you
dreams.
God
has
given
you
a
ministry
of
some
kind.
Don't
let
porn
get
in
the
way
of
that.
Which
one
do
you
want
to
end
up
with
in
the
end,
God's
dream
for
your
life
or
porn?
3:43
And
number
10
for
your
legacy,
what
kind
of
impact
do
you
want
to
leave
on
this
world?
How
will
future
generations
be
different
because
of
you?
You
quitting
porn
right
now
can
have
a
huge
ripple
effects,
not
just
on
your
faith
and
your
family,
but
on
the
future
of
this
world.
I
wonder
which
of
these
reasons
resonates
with
you
the
most?
If
you
want
to
see
some
more
reasons,
go
to
brain
heart,
world.org
and
I
would
love
to
know
what
is
your
why?
Why
do
you
want
to
quit
porn?
Whatever
your
motivation
is,
I
fully
support
you
and
I
want
to
be
here
for
you
on
this
journey.
So
always
remember
this.
You
are
God's
beloved
son
and
in
you,
he
is
pleased
.
